Self-Respect vs. External Validation

To rely solely on being called "great" by others is to live in the fragile hope of social praise—external validation. Define yourself on your own terms—not out of ego, but out of self-respect.
Furthermore, stop comparing yourself to everyone else. You are you; others are others. Every individual enters this world with their own unique path of karma and destiny. Do not let the competition with others overshadow your own milestones. Finding joy in every small achievement is the true secret to a fulfilled life.